eating my last curry bun as part two of dinner. 

I’m legit taking most of tomorrow off. 







itswalky:

Shortpacked!: Dream




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Above anything else, stay true to yourself. Whether that means for you that you like to have blue hair, or you don’t like to drink, or you are attracted to the same sex, or you want to remove yourself from Facebook, or you’ve got 3 different kids from 3 different dads but you know you’re a really good mom, or you cry for a week because your turtle died. Whatever your truth is, stay true to yourself. But be a good person while you’re at it.


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-  Gillian Anderson’s advice for young feminists (via theladymargaery)

(Source: foxsmulders, via iwriteaboutfeminism)




*STOP* THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU DON”T GIVE UP *STOP*

i-wish-icouldntfeel-a-damn-thing:

We all have BAD MOMENTS

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We all SCREAM sometimes

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We all CRY

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We all tell the same LIES

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We all do things that people CAN’T UNDERSTAND, feel like GIVING UP

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But in the END

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We are in this TOGETHER

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And TOGETHER we can survive through it ALL

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(via iwriteaboutfeminism)




dumbingofage:

Preview panel from January 30, 2015

HA! You say that now, but just you watch - this, too, will be renovated, and this preview will become a lie! XD




wilwheaton:

fayedaniels:

blackgirlsrpretty2:

it’s not your job to entertain him by sending him nudes

it’s not your job to satisfy him sexually because he’s horny

you are not required to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don’t want to do

don’t be scared of “losing him”

he most likely wasn’t anything worth keeping

Girls need to be taught this from such an early age.

And boys need to be taught to respect the girls.

(via misandry-mermaid)




land-of-propaganda:

#FergusonOctober

A mural was painted over Monday afternoon after Trenton police expressed concern that the painting, depicting Michael Brown, a Ferguson, Mo., teen who was fatally shot by police in August, sent the wrong message about community and police relations.

(Read more here)

(10/21)

(via iwriteaboutfeminism)




c1u:

reblog if you are into bondage or if you like french fries

(Source: reheating, via ravenandthewolf)




misandry-mermaid:

heliolisk:

heteroh:

rape culture hasn’t gone anywhere

wtf did I just read

Who gave a dumpster full of dirty diapers the ability to type and form sentences?




craftylindsey:

lucifers-kittykat:

This is Susan Robinson, one of the last people in the country who can preform late term abortions after the murder of Dr. George Tiller. This is from an awesome documentary called After Tiller, about the last 4 late-term abortion practitioners in the country. It’s a great watch and available on Netflix, would strongly recommend. 

warrior woman

(Source: throwherinthewater, via ladyazreal)




lonelyaspie4u asked:
Come on, you are ugly just like me. I deserve a chance as I am in your league.

Okay, first of all - I’m not ugly. I’m not photoshop gorgeous, but I’m not ugly. If you think getting a girl by calling her ugly is a thing that happens - stop. That is not a thing that happens. 

Whatever your opinion of your own looks, that’s not any justification for being rude to other people. 

Second of all - no, you do not “deserve a chance.” That’s called acting entitled. No one owes you anything, especially in terms of romantic and sexual attention. Cut that shit out. 

Third of all - what do you even mean, “league?” The entire concept of people being in “leagues” is ridiculous. There is no infallible formula or classification of people into dating “leagues.” It’s a fictitious, incredibly erroneous, and pointless construct. Again, trying to “net” someone by being negative - calling them ugly, implying they owe you something, implying you’re stuck together in some undesirable “league” - is called “negging” and it doesn’t work. Stop.

Moving from that - you’ve got a post on your blog that specifically says: 

lonelyaspie4u:

I’m looking for a girlfriend who doesn’t care about looks and isn’t a feminist loser. If you don’t give me a chance, you are missing out on an amazing relationship.

And this charmingpoem. (it’s not charming at all, it’s rude and incredibly ignorant)

I mean, what the actual hell, guy? Your very first actual post is blaming your lack of a relationship on - on feminism? 

lonelyaspie4u:

Fuck every woman who is a feminist. Feminism has never accomplished anything in our society except forcing men who are ugly and anti social like me to stay single. It’s not fair. I’m not single by choice. I’m single because women are shallow fucks who choose men based on the way that they look.

You really have no idea what feminism is, or how to treat a woman with any degree of respect. 

I’m a feminist. I believe in working towards equality of the sexes and genders. When you take a stand calling feminists losers, you’re coming across as a woman-hater to a lot of people. And you’re doing that thing again where you think people owe you their time, consideration, effort, attention - “a chance” - and you seriously need to cut that shit out. You come off like you think you deserve everything and all you’ve brought to the table is that you think women are losers and ugly? Come on. Who would want to give anyone the time of day with that sort of strategy? No one. 

You like to claim that you’re nothing like Elliot Rodgers, and yet you have said: 

lonelyaspie4u:

Whatever. I always see these obnoxious looking jerkwads holding hands with beautiful women everywhere I go. I can tell that those men treat their women like shit, and yet those women stay with them. It’s not fair. I’m not successful solely because of my looks.

While not verbatim identical, you’ve very concisely mirrored many of Elliot Rodger’s angry, entitled sentiments: the men who are in relationships with women appear to be jerks to you, you believe they mistreat their girlfriends, and you’re blaming your lack of relationship on your looks, when really it’s your terrible attitude, actions, and demeaning treatment of women that is largely to blame. That, and the fact that absolutely no one is entitled to a relationship with another person. Ever. At all. End of story. 

The first time you messaged me, I instantly deleted your message, because it was an unwanted advance. After this, I’ll be blocking you, because from what I can see on your blog and in the notes on your very limited posts, you’re a troll. 

Oh, and way to go using Asperger’s as a joke/troll identity. That’s swell of you. And by swell, I mean awful. Ugh. “Sweetest guy ever,” LOL YEAH OKAY.




leftcoastjunkies:

said it

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Anonymous asked:
What are the signs of emotional abuse?

pandemiclaughter:

monkeyfrog:

fegeleh:

the-goddamazon:

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

The last one is a killer and very important.

this is extremely important tw #abuse

Always reblob.

No longer walking on eggshells and being able to be completely me has been an amazing transition in my life.




Alright, crying literally out of nowhere. 

That’s exciting. Can we not.




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